Narrative Medicine Monday: Narrative Humility

“Telling and listening become an antidote to isolation, a call for community.” – Sayantani DasGupta

Dr. Sayantani DasGupta is a leader in Narrative Medicine and faculty at Columbia University. What is narrative medicine? DasGupta explains it this way:

“Narrative Medicine is the clinical and scholarly movement to honor the central role of story in healthcare. Long before doctors had anything of use in our black bags—before diagnostic CAT scans, treatments for blood loss, or cures for tuberculosis—what we had was the ability to show up and to listen; to stand witness to birth, death, illness, suffering, joy, and everything else that life has to offer.”

In this TEDx talk at Sarah Lawrence College and in an essay in Creative Nonfiction on the same topic, she expands on the concept by describing narrative humility:

“Narrative humility means understanding that stories are not merely receptacles of facts, but that every story holds some element of the unknowable.”

DasGupta asserts that “listening to another person is an act of profound humanity; it is an act of profound humility. This is particularly true at those charged moments of illness or trauma, change or suffering.” Have you found this to be true, either as a patient or as a medical provider?

In a healthcare system plagued with burnout, DasGupta argues that narrative humility, learning to listen well to patients, can “deepen medical practice, bringing satisfaction and joy back to an ancient profession that is so much more than a business.”

Writing Prompt: Do you agree with DasGupta that we need to “once again train clinicians to elicit, interpret, and act upon the stories of others, that we hold in equal stead multiple ways of knowing—the scientific and the storied, the informational and the relational?” Why or why not? How can we do this? If you’re a medical provider, were you taught how to listen in your training? Have you considered the concept of narrative humility? Do you think it’s possible to practice this way in today’s healthcare system? Write for 10 minutes.

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Narrative Medicine Monday: Creating a Clearing

In “Creating a Clearing,” storyteller Lance Weiler interviews the originator of Narrative Medicine, Columbia University’s Rita Charon. Charon describes how she ended up in medicine and primary care and the origins of the field of Narrative Medicine. She felt she was missing something as a physician from her formal medical training at Harvard. So instead she sought out the English Department: “I figured they were the ones on campus who knew something about listening to stories…” Her time there led to a PhD and, in her words, it taught her “how to be a doctor.”

Charon points out that we are all patients. What do you think of her idea that “we do not have to divide ourselves into mind on one side and body on the other or body on one side and self or personhood on the other, but instead we are all mortals inextricably bound to our bodies, our health, our frailties, our eventual mortality. This is how it is within that element that we don’t become ourselves, but [we] are ourselves”? Do you feel that the medical system tends to separate our bodies from our minds, from our personhood?

Charon explains how Narrative Medicine has grown over the years and now attracts all kinds of people in fields of health care, art, history and beyond. She states that the field of Narrative Medicine has “created a clearing,” a safe space for patients and clinicians and artists to “show people how to listen with great attention and respect.”

Charon describes how we’re traditionally trained as physicians to address a patient’s problem. Western Medicine is a disease model, focused on diagnosing, preventing or treating a problem. Charon takes a different approach. She first listens, focusing on what is important to the patient. I like how Charon begins: “I will be your doctor. I need to know a lot about your body, your health, your life. Tell me what you think I should know about your situation.”

She notes that both sides suffer from the typical patient-physician encounter: “[patients] come in armed with their list of questions that they’ve written down so as not to forget any in their precious twelve minutes, which is all they’re allotted. The clinician, on his or her side, is already looking at the wristwatch aware that there’s another three people in the waiting room waiting for what’s going to amount to the same brusk, impersonal, divided attention. So nobody’s getting what they want or need or desire or can benefit from.” Does this sound familiar to you? Are you hopeful, as is Charon, that if patients and clinicians lead on medical reform we can find a better way? What would that look like?

Writing Prompt: What skills do you find most helpful to listen to another person’s story? What would it be like as a patient to have a doctor ask you: “Tell me what you think I should know about your situation”? How would that question change the conversation? Think about what aspect of your training was most pivotal to teaching you how to be a doctor/nurse/physical therapist, etc. Are you surprised that for Charon it was her studies in English? Write for 10 minutes.

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Narrative Medicine Monday: What Patients Say, What Doctors Hear

Dr. Danielle Ofri’s latest book, What Patients Say, What Doctors Hear is a call to re-examine the way doctors and patients communicate with each other. Through fascinating patient examples and directed research, Ofri illuminates the pitfalls in the current medical system that lead to miscommunication and, ultimately, worse heath outcomes.

I was particularly struck by Ofri’s call for physicians to become better listeners, and thus “co-narrators” of a patient’s story. This term was coined by researcher Janet Bavelas, whose study shows that how physicians listen to a patient’s story in fact contributes to the shaping of that narrative. Ofri asserts that “medicine is still fundamentally a human endeavor,” that one of the most significant ways we can advance health care is by improving one of our most basic tools: communication.

I’m thrilled Dr. Ofri will be speaking to my medical group this week and I’ll be able to meet her in person. Dr. Ofri has written many books and essays important to the world of narrative medicine and is the Editor-in-Chief of the Bellevue Literary Review.

Writing Prompt: One chapter in Ofri’s book outlines a “Chief Listening Officer” who was hired by a hospital to listen to patients and translate their needs back to the hospital so they could improve care. Ofri notes the value of this, that “being listened to so attentively is a remarkably energizing experience. It makes you eager to continue engaging.” Have you ever had an interaction with a medical provider who listened to you and your story in this way? How did it make you feel? Did that experience benefit your health in any way? Write for 10 minutes.

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Narrative Medicine Monday: Someone Else’s Pain

Brenna Working Lemieux’s poem “Someone Else’s Pain” illustrates the struggle to understand what others are feeling, how challenging it can be to fully grasp another’s suffering. The patient experiences “some driven-screw anguish that flares” that they attempt to explain. Lemieux can only “nod or shake [her] head.”

I can relate to Lemieux; medical providers regularly face the challenge to decipher a patient’s explanation of illness or pain. I delivered babies for many years before I had my own children. After I experienced labor for the first time myself, I cringed recalling many of the comments, modeled after other medical providers, I had made to laboring patients prior to experiencing that pain myself. I had been sympathetic to their pain but could not embody empathy in the same way I could after I had gone through a similar experience. I had no reference point to the crushing agony of contractions that I would later understand. Of course, we can’t fully experience everything our patients go through. However, we can become better at listening and responding to the story they are trying to tell.

Lemieux likens listening to the patient describe their pain to the focus she had in art class, “trying in vain to capture” an image of her hand. Her poem illustrates the nuances and importance of narrative to medicine, the need to hone our listening and storytelling skills to improve the relationship between patient and physician and, ultimately, medical care as a whole.

Writing Prompt: What is the biggest challenge in understanding another person’s pain or illness? Have you ever tried to describe such an experience to a friend or healthcare provider? Think of a time you were on the explaining or the listening end of such a conversation. Write for 10 minutes.

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