British physician and author Rachel Clarke advises in The New York Times that to care best for our terminally ill patients we should, “In Life’s Last Moments, Open a Window.” Dr. Clarke relays the story of a patient dying of cancer who was nonverbal but clearly in anguish. “We tried talking, listening, morphine. His agitation only grew.”
Clarke initially questions if the “sheer vitality of nature might be an affront to patients so close to the end of life — a kind of impudent abundance.” Instead she finds, as in the case of her patient with tongue cancer who merely wanted his door opened wide to the adjacent garden, many patients develop an “intense solace… in the natural world.”
It is the song of a blackbird outside her window that gives one of Clarke’s breast cancer patients perspective that even “[c]ancer is part of nature too, and that is something I have to accept, and learn to live and die with.”
Clarke shuns the idea that end of life care needs to equate to a “dark and dismal place.” Instead, she contends that what should dominate hospice “is not proximity to death but the best bits of living.”
Writing Prompt: Clarke’s patient Diane notes that cancer is a part of nature. What are the implications of this statement for you as a medical provider, as a patient, as a loved one? When you’ve been ill, have you found solace in nature? Write for 10 minutes.